When things click and work

Friendship.
Such a strange concept.
Hard to define, yet wonderful. Hard to ascertain, yet comforting.
Hard to measure, yet occupational.

Out of nowhere, "friendship" hits one directly in the face. No warnings, no precautions. It just happens. Most of the time a fabulous surprise; other times not quite so. It could bring about happiness, joy, laughter, tears of joy... it could also bring upon tears of sadness, depression, unpleasantness, annoyance.

So what is this "friendship"? How does it present itself and contradict itself?

Everyone will have a different answer. To me, I'm going with the flow. Fate. It doesn't require explanation, it doesn't require questioning... it will bring upon whatever it is set out to in the first place, and all I have to do is accept or reject it. There is still a choice despite the orchestration of fate.

So grateful for the awesome friendships received. Also grateful for those not so great ones, it lets me learn and helps me grow. So much can be learnt about the world and human interactions through friendships. Even the nice ones are nurturing, obviously.

When "friendship" knocks on one's door and it all clicks, nothing in the world quite feels as special as it. =)

Hui Hui ^^b